Second Chance – 47

Second Chance – 47

Overcoming setbacks is one of life’s challenges. We’ve all had setbacks and overcome them at some point or another. But how does one overcome a near-death experience? That is something that not many of us has gone through. Can you imagine how it would feel? How it...
Dealing with Trauma – 45

Dealing with Trauma – 45

In 1976 three men kidnapped a school bus with 26 children and the driver, and buried them alive in a quarry with some food and water. This is known as the Chowchilla kidnapping. They were planning to ask for ransom. Luckily, 16 hours later one of the kids with the...
Developing an Inner Life – 39

Developing an Inner Life – 39

There is no doubt that in today’s society we encourage goals, success, and achievement while sometimes overlooking the development of an inner life. Perhaps the recent tragedy of Zappos founder Tony Hsieh is an example of that. It is almost as if what we are feeling...
Let Them Go – 38

Let Them Go – 38

Once I heard the story of a former Nazi officer that, years after the war had finished, was in his deathbed and asked for a Jew. When the Jew turned up, the dying Nazi officer asked for forgiveness. The Jew couldn’t find it in his heart to forgive, even when the other...
Just The Way You Are – 36

Just The Way You Are – 36

Many years ago, a friend said that one of his biggest challenges was accepting who he was. This was the first time I was exposed to the problem of self-acceptance. Although I have suffered my fair share of failures, have made lots of mistakes, and have not...